The Grand Goodbye

I believe the real reason I have spent my entire life searching for evidence of life after death is that I could never accept the idea that everything is simply over when a person or an animal dies. That from one moment to the next, nothing remains, that all that is left is just a memory.

The theme of farewell has shaped my life. As a tiny baby, only three months old, I lost my mother—not through death, but because she gave me up for adoption. This experience influenced me more than anything else, and as a result, I struggled with goodbyes all my life. I always lived in fear of losing the people who meant something to me, and this fear held me back. More instinctively than consciously, I began researching life after death at an early age.

I was always different from the people around me. I could sense so much more, and I knew things that one simply shouldn't be able to know. People said I had an overactive imagination, that I was just making things up. Of course, I considered that possibility myself at first, but everything I perceived was so real that I could clearly distinguish between fantasy and reality.

Deceased individuals, spirit guides, and angels have accompanied me throughout my life. I could talk to them and, occasionally, even see them. I received so many signs—signs that always turned out to be true—that I could not doubt their reality.

Later in life, I actively explored my relationship with the spirit world, always making sure that what I perceived could be validated. My connection with the deceased became just as real as my relationships with living people, which helped me cope better with the theme of "farewell." Of course, I still miss a person or an animal when they leave their physical form; the grieving process remains the same. But it helps me to know that I do not have to despair over a goodbye—because all my loved ones are always with me, in every moment.

In my work as an evidential medium, it is therefore extremely important to me that contact with the deceased is always clearly proven. The information I receive from them must be specific, offering undeniable evidence of their life. Equally important is that the contact feels alive—that I engage in a real relationship with the deceased and communicate with them as if they were still here. That is why, in a session, the spirit will always present themselves in a way that their loved ones would recognize—their distinct personality, their unique traits, and their way of describing things and situations. If they were a shy person in life, they will appear to me in that way. If they were full of energy, that energy will be transmitted as well.

Deceased individuals always strive to ensure that their loved ones truly recognize them. In my experience, every spirit who comes forward is grateful for the opportunity to connect with their loved ones again and will do their best to communicate as clearly as possible.

For me, these moments remain sacred. A space is created where the deceased, their loved ones, and I—as the medium between the worlds—come together, even if just for a moment. And this moment is deeply moving and healing.

Even though I have facilitated countless such connections in my life, each one is unique, and I feel honored when a spirit chooses me as their medium to reach their loved one once more.

In this way, I hope I can contribute, even just a little, to making a "grand goodbye" feel not just like a loss, but also something comforting. To offer the certainty that there is no such thing as a final farewell—that we are all eternally connected and can always sense and communicate with one another.